have I been making mistakes too long part3

[tkdmme]

PigPen,

After the BD we agreed to stop drinking for three months and go to counseling. She dropped out of counseling after 3 weeks and she hid booze at the neighbor's house during this time. any time I wasn't home or was busy around the house, she would sneak to the neighbor's house and dink. She would come home stinking and drunk and swear that she had not been drinking. THis infuriated me. I tried to continue my part of the deal. I am still going to the counselor however I started drinking again. You are correct. I need to get sober and stay that way. It is very hard considering there is always booze in the house and she is always drinking.

Huddy,

What exactly do you mean about getting out of that mind set? Are you referring to the post about getting custody of the kids? If so, I understand and would never want to take the kids from their mother. She is a good mom and does a good job with them.