Ok so H came home unexpectedly while kids were up tonight. We talked face to face first time in 5 days, but just him asking for some phone nimbers( his phone got messed up and he lost some) I was not overly friendly but polite. H seemed very stressed out and somehow mad. H asked D3 to come with him to walk the dog, but she cried and didn't want to. After putting the kids to bed, he was sitting in front of tv with beer, I thought he might have come home to 'talk' and I got kind of nervous as to what he will say. An old me would go straight to sit with him, but i thought I would wait for him to talk to me, so I was doing my nails in another room. I don't know if that ticked him off or he chickened out, but he just took a shower and left. All the while.no word from him. I don't understand why he seems mad to me when he is the one who confessed A, but it didn't get me much tonight about the fact he left. ( bc I didn't expect him to come home anyway) Was my reaction/attitude correct? Or should i have been more friendly and talked to him?
