Ah the DB journey. Just had a buddy send me a TM that he was upset with me over me not wanting to spend time with him tonight. We had dinner plans but I backed out at the last minute after feeling like (censoredO after my W and Woofie left.
I immediately wrote half of a "WTF? You knew my W was coming to town this weekend and I just needed to spend some time by myself afterwards" text but then remembered Mr. Bond telling Ithurts that you DB everyone or you don't really make changes to who you are.
Came on here and hopped on Wonka's validation thread and wrote him back how I understood that we had planned to hang out and that I could see from his perspective like it looked like I flaked. Then asked him what bothered him the most about it. Seems weird to DB a male, but lessons are being learned. Hopefully all will be well.
Thanks Mr. Bond and Wonka.
It's so hard to change our initial reactions.
Last edited by PigPen; 08/17/1504:59 AM.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
