Hi JB, I certainly am worried about my kids with this - especially my daughter. I feel like I have to walk behind them to catch them when their mom drops them again. So enjoying the supermom as far as taking over tasks should relieve me a little, I am always on guard that either I am going to have to pick up pieces, or I am getting slammed by her.
The other day she was talking to D telling her to call S17 for a ride to and from her friends house (like I was unwilling or unable to do this) This angered me and I had to stop W from making these statements to the kids about me. I'm really not sure why she is making this up. I think that V had mentioned WW projecting her faults onto me. Maybe this is it again.
I did have a quick conversation with D15 today about making plans with me and her mom. Scheduling and communication is getting very complicated since I don't have contact with WW. I apologized to her for everything being so complicated and told her that I wasn't blaming her and it wasn't her fault. She said she understood.
Thank you for your kind words Jelly - I can use a friend.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015