Hi Bright- like many others, post BD I trolled the forum for a while before I began to post. I regret it! I thought I was learning so much from reading of others' situations and I did, but by not posting I also missed many introspective opportunities. It is amazing to be able to go back and re-read.

You got this!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced