HeavyD, be careful about labelling W as a narc. Really it's a clinical diagnosis.
Narcs are that way throughout an R, not just at the end. At the end it's just plain addiction and stupidity. I read that your W was and maybe still is a great mom, narcs generally don't have space for that.
OW on the other hand, well as you described her, some tendencies.
As far as I can see you have very great purpose, a terrific mom, career worker, and amazing caring woman. Your higher spirit is awakening, in due course, you will shine bright and have integrity.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 08/16/1507:06 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW