I have stopped responding to this question and others like it. If she persists I will tell her to stop. If she doesn't stop I will follow up with an affidavit or some such. I will asks attorney about this too.
In church today a baby was being baptized- such a happy family event. For me it was another reminder of a family happiness thst I no longer have. I just slipped out the back door and no one noticed.
I saw the birthday party photos of which I was in a couple of . I had to pose with W for a couple. She is grinning broadly like the Cheshire Cat. Me, I just looked thin and drawn and had a very slight smile. It was so obvious that w is happy happy happy! All is this sickens me and I have lost my purpose. Others have said the same thing , life without purpose is not living at all just existing.
I read up on narcissits last night and God that hit home and how soul destroying it is to be involved with one. Narcissits devalue people once they have sucked the well dry. Maybe I should consider myself lucky to have escaped as chitty as it was how it ended.
Narcissits never feel sorry or remorse or guilt. They are just not wired that way. They feel entitled and justified in their feelings and their feelings are paramount regardless of the destruction.
The best thing that can be done is get out of the relationship pronto and don't look back. Cut the losses and move one.
