Thanks Fogg, You are right. I got into the last arguement I am going to let her pull me into. I am going to do what you said but the problem is she told me she is leaving. When I asked her when she said that she didn't know the details. She wants to move back with her mom (and leave her 2 children). As a friend from her hometown told me, I don't understand, her family meant everything to her. But when her Dad died things changed. He became larger than life. He was unfaithful to his wife but her mother stayed with him. He hardly ever told her that he loved her. They just did not have a huggy type relationship. She has to find a job first and I know she was looking today for employment near her mom. I know people have said to stay off her FB but I have access to her FB account and I am gathering evidence in case of a divorce. Her EA sent her a winking emoji today and she sent him back 2 words. You know. Thats not good. But he did not respond. I think he likes talking but not sure he wants a relationship. She told me her plan right now was to have no tention in the house but she brings all the tension into the house. no one bothers her and she has all the problems. I truly believe she is suffering from Depression.
