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GAL! Read up on it, take action and start doing it! Believe me, it's hard, it's tough sometimes but GAL saved my life and many relationships come full circle.

I always liked the analogy of "A starved dog doesn't get fed". Now, think of it like this. You hear a scratch at your back door and there is an emancipated, pathetic dog standing there. What is your instinct to do? Now, similar situation except there is a beautiful, purebred dog standing there. Is your reaction going to be different?

Right now, begging, pleading, etc is making you look like the "starved dog". Show her that you can be the well-fed dog and watch how quickly things can change (for you and her).