What I'm having issue with is how to communicate that I don't like it without pushing her away. One of her complaints was that she feels like I have kept her from having a life. I have kept her from friends. I should have went out with her AND her friends as couple dating when I was invited. Instead, I would say let's just stay home. I travel for work in outside sales, so I like to be home when I'm home. Now, she is trying to GAL. Visiting her sister on other side of state last weekend. Hanging with her best is last night at a bar and then having a "slumber party". If I tell her I don't like this, I am demonstrating I still have control, trust, and jealousy issues. Right now, my trust level is very low. I'm trying to let go of control. As it is said on here, I can't control her. So, telling her how I feel is difficult.
