It says a lot that after all she has put you through, you can still find compassion & feel the pain your W went through & is going through. It is also good that you mourned your lost life. Painful & messy, but good.
I wouldn't go writing things off just yet. I'm not saying that you two have a future, but I don't think the conclusion to the story has yet been written. So just enjoy having Woofie back in your life, and keep doing the good work you are doing.
Glad you are getting some very happy days in with the prospects of more. You really learn to appreciate them when after all the dark days.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15