Yes, the tarot cards trading was very interesting. I've never done it before. I would like to try it again to see what they say and if they match up. Kind of wish they would have said it's over don't try move on. Yes he goes back and forth one nice day, one mean and nice again..He has always tried to get along after an argument I do have to say. According to him and from what he said in the beginning he had no plans to bring her to the game until my S15 said she could come when I said I wasn't going. I know he likes her. She's nice he said. He's obviously forgotten...my bad for thinking he wouldn't! As far as a divorce yes I am doing it to shock him, but also it's time to finish it. Maybe that will help me move on as well. I just do not like him telling me to move on and get over it like you're just supposed to flip a switch. he never experienced the pain that we do. I truly believe he will never want to reconcile. he shows none of the signs that he did the first time we split up seven years ago actually now 9 years ago. my great working with teens is a whole nother bag of worms. It's funny that my d 15 now who has always been pro dad, is not wanting to be around him when she is there. I'm sure that is murder and jealousy and not for me lol Thank you for taking the time to read my sitch!
Last edited by NotAgainPlease; 08/16/1503:07 PM.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
