I am angry that she has neglected the kids every since the BD. I have been doing everything I can to have fun with them and keep us busy, especially since school starts soon. She is focused on herself only. So selfish right now. She is normally an excellent mother. I see a definite change in her. When she is home, she is looking at her phone way too much. She is home, but not present.
I don't feel like I can do or say the anything right. I want to say something to her, but I feel like it will push her away, lead to a fight, etc. I can't wait to get my books on Tuesday. I hope I get some more tools on how to deal with this all. I appreciate all the feedback. I am really confused on the detachment and boundaris as it seems I have to break the 37 rules to get there.
