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[Vanilla]

I am still not as negative about the ML dynamic as others. When you are no longer enjoying the coffee, stop drinking it. Do this for you not to connect, wake up WH or any other reason, but because it's not ok with you. If ML is a 180 then consider carefully, that which you want. Look back and say to yourself 'good whilst it lasted, and I came to a point that it wasn't for me so I stopped. Then to WH, "thanks but no thanks. It's been great but no longer for me you know my stance on it. When you are ready we can discuss but be aware I am moving on with my life quickly now'

I carried on with my java for a long time, until it became an empty bitter tasting brew, and I think that's a decision you make for you. Do so because you are strung out on caffeine or the particular brand no longer appeals or is mouldy.

It isn't something I regret doing, some of us are caffeine addicts and are happy to ML. It may be a long time before I get another cup to share! I am trusting one day I will.

Some of us are just simply high drive in this way. If you ML do so for you, not to please another, it's your choice, when you do, go OK, that was for me.

Then one day I lay beside WH and thought, that's it, this is the last time. This isn't my idea of enjoyable. Then it was ' WH this is the last time, until you want a committed M, then no more" and WH said ' I thought so'. Plus dear heart no coffee without a lid, it may spill and cause great health damage.

And my WH was a seducer (and so am I in the right R) so I let it go, just stated by boundary "you know my views". And to myself "I am saving myself for Liam! "

V