So I was asked when I felt a detached moment to post it! Your posts were very honest tons of great information and a little harsh which I am fine with! BUT had my H said that to me it would have ruined my entire day made me cry and hurt! So the healthy detachment I have with you guys allows me to have an open mind focus on the information instead of simply focusing on the harsh parts of it! It allowed me to look at it in a reality fashion! It did not affect my mood or change my emotion!
