Did you ask L if you have the right to kick H out of the house? I guess he'll probably be too concerned with being outed to protest, but I'd call and find out on Monday... just so you know what *can* happen.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17