I am still learning. My gut instinct is too tell her not to stay the night. I know this will just push her away. So, I am trying to just keep my mouth shut about this with her. She is getting ready in the shower now. So, I came on here to look. Not sure what I'm going to say. I should have left before her, like I planned. I am taking my son swimming now. I feel bad that my d:13 doesn't want to go. The kids are not her priority right now. I am trying to take care of them and handle this. I should have been gone, but here I am.
