As always humbled and Grateful, I extend my heart felt "Thank You" to everyone. I appreciate it and if my situation can shed light on what to do and especially what not to do then God is Great!
In the hopes of moving forward and as minute as this sounds I have to ask if it's a good idea. I have kept the house tidy in the midst of all of this, but I want to get rid of somethings as they remind me of the recent past but even more for example...I never liked the bed top cushion that she got for the Master Room that sits on top of the mattress. It's foamy and uncomfortable and I can't sleep well. I put up with it for her but I want it out and gone.
In addition, there are things she left behind that I figure is not important or useful to her (no pun intended...lol). Should I give her the courtesy of asking her if she wants it or should I just get rid of the items?