have I been making mistakes too long part3

[Huddy]

Stop. You're too emotional about this right now. This is when you need to get out and breathe. Go for a walk and just start to calm down. I have been in all the places you've been right now. I know exactly how it feels. Your W has gone nuts and there is no way she's ever gonna come back whilst you sit and go all needy and weeping on her.

She will want to see a brave man who is confident and can do all the things she wants her H to do. Don't ask what that is, make the changes you think will be needed to bring her back by working on yourself. Gym, reading, no drinking, no idea what it is, but look at it from her eyes - what have you got to give?