I feel ready to take the certain 'manly' things down and pack them up for him. It just hurts looking at all these things that remind me of the times we shopped for them together and such. Is it too early and will it set me back to give him a box and say "here you go, this place is no longer yours"...
Well, what do you want to do. If you want to get rid of that stuff...then by all means! If you don't care that rhebstuff is there...he can pack his own crapola up to take with h him.
This time right now and moving forward is about what EP wants to do. This is your space. This is your life. For now husband has chosen not to be a part of it. Uugh that is not awesome, but you are a strong woman and will make the best of this...take the situation as it comes and turn it into the best you can...which I am seeing that the ceiling is high!!!
