Regarding the "plans" discussion, I think it's Cali that uses the "seriously?" Line followed by a short laugh and a goodbye when the W gets too nosy. May be worth trying that so you don't get into an argument about where you are and why you won't tell her exactly what you're up to.
As for today, do something for yourself today. See a movie, cook a nice dinner, ANYTGING that you've been wanting to do but haven't.
