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[lonelee]

Thank you both for something to chew on. I am still undecided at this point which way to turn. Will be deciding either way soon.

If I go I may decide to use the opportunity to discuss the OW and the open marriage concept as I hadnt really thought of it in those terms. And no ultimately that is not my goal or the message that I want to be sending. Of course I would probably wait till the end of the trip to discuss these matters as I would want to see what his agenda is and see how things go first.

Maybe it is his desire to have an opportunity to see how we interact and or maybe for him to start a dialog about us. At this time im not sure but am anxious to see what might unfold. Of course theres the possubility to that it could be a big flop as well...