Hi Haunted, he may really, really have felt that way right at the moment he said that. But as we all know, things can change and feelings can change - particularly if you remove all pressure and begin to live your own life.
Without looking back - did you read the books? I think you need to focus on DB101 basics here. He is where he is right now. It's not a good place for your M and he may be there for a while. So, how are you working on you? What are your GAL plans? Let's start detaching from him and shift the focus on you. That's the way to move forward my friend.
If you read the books already, maybe re-read them with a pencil and really take in the concepts, believe in the process and start applying it and see how it begins to impact on how you feel, and on your sitch.
Good luck - we are all here to help :-)
I haven't read the DB book. I was reading the DR. Well I am just working and about to start back school. I am trying to detach. It's so hard. Any tips on how to do it and stick to it?
