Haunted, They say things in the heat of the moment. At the time he said those things to you, he may very well have felt that way. They are his feelings to own. They could very well change again in the future and that's why we say not to believe much of what they say. You know what you had w/him in the marriage. Ask yourself this, is it live or Memorex?
If you haven't done any research on MLC, I suggest that you begin doing so. Much of what your h is saying and doing is classic MLC script. It's important that you keep the focus on you and do not over analyze what they or do. Why? Because it will drive you crazy.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
