Just catching up on the name change.... There are many chapters and names we identify with throughout our lives.
I am so sorry to hear H filed. This is may be an end to a chapter, but your next chapter is going to be even more fantastic and interesting .... It is starting out with llama trekking!
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015