Perhaps they are considering putting up a big gazebo in the backyard for the reception I which case you wouldn't have to step foot in the house. Remember a lot can happen in 15mos. Try to focus on today's facts not tomorrows "what-ifs".
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015