'We existing like that for months....and then things just kind of "changed".'

Hi Crimson, really pleased to read your story. It's great when people come back to post and help others. Just WRT your comment above, have you and your W discussed what it was that changed for her at this point and started the move back towards you?

I think your story shows how long and how far many sitches need to go in order to turn. Someone else posted recently that this is one of the areas that isn't truly highlighted. Yes, we read comments that this is may be a long and rocky road, but it is so true. Although if you have managed to achieve a level of detachment and are enjoying your life as it is, that helps.

Good luck with things Crimson - really pleased for you guys xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus