Thank you for the kind words. Yes I have great kids and they love us both equally even so they know what happened with their dad and his gf. I might have confused you by saying her ex H is violent. Not towards her although he like my stbx is an alcoholic. I don't believe he ever was abusive to her. He just is not the greatest guy I guess. I guess my d 15 told my stbx today that she was going to stay at her girlfriends tonight because he had his gf there and said he told her that he wouldn't bring her around anymore and she's here. I guess he didn't say anything when she said that. I did find out that she drove the kids to school this morning. and went school shopping today for school supplies. I told the kids that was nice but I will be donating them to the school and buying them myself because I am their mother not her. I didn't need to see the notebook that she bought them everyday to be reminded of her. My daughter gets it but my son unfortunately doesn't. Which is funny because he was the one stole the number out of his dads phone and texted her messages to stay away from his dad. I know it's difficult for them and as far as stbx getting tired of it I don't know but you think that someday she would being the one who always had to make the effort to see him. I just need it to be over so I'm going to be the one that has to finalize the divorce I guess. Who knows maybe it will shock him into reality. I doubt it though. He seems pretty content who wouldn't to have somebody just do whatever they want and you be able to do what you want to do. Lol
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
