I will likely be filing for D within a matter of weeks, assuming I don't get served first, and maybe that will be a part of the reality that knocks WW out of her fantasy
To me the decision to file was because I was not willing to live in a open marriage and I had enough of the lies and cheating. I was not hoping to wake up WW. I made that decision for myself. Because I deserve better.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"