The What's good for goose & gander rarely makes WAS happy. Good job on the detachment & leaving things vague (esp. if I'm reading the implication that she volunteered her plans rather than you asking what she was doing.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15