hmmm. I thought (as part of my 180), I should try to empathize, understand his point of view. So I acknowledge that I could see how he'd feel "monitored" still.
Not sure if that's an absolute. What am I missing?

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?