H has started an affair

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The most true saying regarding wayward spouses is: "believe NONE of what they say, and HALF of what they do". They are not about to tell you the truth about anything and will say and do everything to avoid breaking up the M and A. They want it all and no pesky truth to spoil it. Make him pick, you or OW, and right now

Spend some time thinking about how to get you in a more independent place. Independence will give you confidence and courage. It is called GAL'ing around here (GET A LIFE).