It seems to me that in reading your posts that your always trying something new to get the "right" answer. IMO you haven't settled on any one thing that you can control and that is you. IMO I think you need to slow down and try maybe one new thing for a little while and give it a chance to work. your trying everything under the sun because you feel like the last thing wasn't successful so let me try this, and this, and this.
IMO I think you need to work on detaching some for your self because it appears to me that you are constantly pursuing in one fashion or another and to your point he is seeing right through it.
I know how desperate you feel but it is that desperation that is probably turning him off and away from you. slow down take a deep breath and think what is the one thing I can do for myself today that will make me a better person for myself and in turn maybe a better person for my Spouse and my children. And do that consistently for a week and see what kind of reaction it brings. You cant tell him what you've done to change he needs to see it and feel it for himself.
I think you expecting immediate results and when you don't get the response your after you immediately try some thing else. This is more than likely going to be a long process that you have to work through.
There's a lot of folks here rooting for you!
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.
