have i been making mistaked too long. part 2

[Huddy]

It's hard to explain, but she's gone. Yeah, I struggled with the idea that by detaching etc. this would pull the W back in. I'm still working on it, but, you can't make things worse, only better.

So, show her how good you are at being a husband, a dad, a man etc. Make her want to be with you with actions. Look good, smell good and make sure she notices you. Don't ask her for attention or if she's noticed changes in you or you'll blow it. She's got to feel that she wants to be with you again. If you're mysterious or unavailable, then if she wants to pursue you, that's how it works. Work on yourself first. be the man that your W would be a mug to leave! Be the man that feels confident enough that women would want you.