Talked a little last night, but it ended the same... he feels like he's being played & manipulated. I just don't see what I'm doing (now) that is causing that. He asked some good questions - I validated. I think because of his counselor background he knows what I'm doing with that and it just seems fake.

So I sent him an email this morning (I know, probably wrong to do):
Among other things it said this: "Now, I feel like I am finally growing into the woman I'm supposed to be! I know it must not seem familiar to you - you are used to a much different "Kyrie", of which I am ashamed. No more walking backwards." (that's a song reference which he would get).
He said I was talking at him, not to him.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?