Hi Job, yes, I do expected him not to do anything about the divorce. It's funny I really don't think it's about money, like my girlfriend tells me because he pays me the agreed support and I have the house and we split everything already, which isn't much because he didn't want anything.
As far as the girlfriend, she has introduced him to her kids, they call him Uncle M. Her family does know about stbx but her ex h supposedly is a little violent and she keeps him away from her house I guess. Although he has been there. As far as "madly in love" I think that's an understatement. She comes up here he works all day, does kids things in the evening( mostly with her sitting at home), and goes back to work in am. She has to be madly in love to see him in the evening for the few hours while he's awake because he goes to bed early. He's used to getting up for on his 3 days or 4 days on at work. I asked stbx if he was bringing her to my S 15 football game Saturday and he said no. So again she's up here to sit in this house while he is out doing whatever. I don't think she'll ever give up her hold on him. And why would he want her to if she just sits around and hangs out and wait for him? It's just like being married to him except when he's with the kids I was with him lol. I found out that gf was following my d 15 on Pinterest so I blocked her. Then she changed her photo to one oh her and stbx. thinking. Was going to bother me lol. To my surprise I felt nothing just thinking it was a bad picture of my stbx lol. I do have to say I looked at her Pinterest page and she has many many posts of being in love, wjat love is , and things about long distance relationships how they're hard but they work and it's worth every minute. Lol
You are correct he is content the way things are and nothing will ever change. I am going to contact the attorney today and get it started because I know he thinks I will never do that. Wrong watch out here I come. I don't expect that to change anything with us but I need to finalize this and move on. I can't say I would never want to reconcile my stbx because deep down I do still love him but it's time to move on.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
