Cali I did validate her feelings yesterday and I have been for a few months. I told her i can see how that would hurt her etc etc. It looked like it sank in more yesterday. I wish I would have validated her feelings when we would argue about it in the past, I just felt attacked in the past. I told I see things very differently now. I think she just holds on to anger and hurt because she doesn't know how to deal any other way. I told her I wish she could forgive me
M: 32 W: 35 M 2 1/2 T 4 1/2 same sex couple W "unhappy" April 2015 D first asked for mid May 2015 2nd D end of June 2015 D papers in hand, just have to sign Start of piecing 8/20/15 A confirmed 1/2/15
