I can definitely learn from my mistakes. When I don't take care of me, I become less stable and more likely to react in ways which distance her, taking care of me physically (quit smoking, more eating, working out) and emotionally (meditation and personal growth) leads to better results for me personally and also attracts her back to me.
One thing I still struggle with is no expectations. By definition I still want us to work. If I had no expectation whatsoever I'll be leaving this city to travel Asia and go on an extended retreat of 1-2 months.
By staying here, I'm maintaining hope and expectation.
But I guess small steps. Going on that 10 day next week scares me as hell to be far away from her for so long.
Me: 29, wife: 29 Been together 6 years. Married June 13 (2years) Separation: 22/6/15 W stopped wearing wedding ring 30/6/15
