Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Dwh
It shows that As burn out in a couple of years.
V

I forgot to comment on this quote. V, funny you should mention that, because when I look back at the history, every OM that WW has been with last 18-24 months, or less. I expect no difference with current OM. It's only around 5 months in, and probably feels new, exciting, etc. but she is going to hit the same milestone with him eventually, and start to realize it wasn't the dream she thought she had.

The big difference this time is that she's going to be divorced, and not have me or my financial support to fall back on. And, depending on how it goes with the court, she may lose a lot of access to her children before that time comes. No idea how that will impact her, but it's going to feel like a bottomless pit compared to how she had it before.

The other problem is that she has burned friendships like crazy through this process. I am reconnecting with people who used to be mutual friends, but that now despise WW. It seems to be a nasty pattern with her in the past few years, where she has major fallouts with friends, and then just writes them off. So while my social circle is expanding daily, WW is down to only a couple of what I would call true friends. She knows a lot of other people through current OM, but those are all his friends, and would likely not remain in contact if/when those two break it off. Really is going to be a sad, lonely path she has to tread.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.