Need advice for a WW who left Part 2

[dwh15]

Thanks for the replies V and Why. After sleeping, or rather NOT sleeping, on it, I agree with you guys. Trying to have any sort of relationship with my W other than as a coparent right now is not good for her or for me. She needs to feel the full consequences of her choices, and I'm going to delay that action with any sort of friendship on my part. Also, I realize that even though I have decided I don't want the M anymore, I am not totally detached yet. It's going to take another few weeks, or maybe months. For now, plan is to keep with DBing, as I think it will really help me grow as a person, father, and friend. Plus, I am hopeful that it will speed along the eventual emotional crash of my W and persuade her to seek some professional guidance. I really do hope she gets help, if nothing more than the sake of my kids having a stable mother. Will keep posting as details unfold.