Thanks.
Makes sense.

I'm learning how to better deal with the internal fire of anxiety, stress and loss which imply I should plead, reason, contact - instead I just let it go through me, as painful as it is.

I can see the ways in which her decision to split up was hastened by me. When she was uncertain I kept pressuring her. No more pressure.

She is also likely becoming more stressed because I started packing my things as the agreement between us is that she stays in our home.


Me: 29, wife: 29
Been together 6 years.
Married June 13 (2years)
Separation: 22/6/15
W stopped wearing wedding ring 30/6/15