Need advice for a WW who left Part 2

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dwh15,

I hate this for you. I agree with what V is saying on the issue of what should be discussing with WW. I would also say that before having this discussion give it a few days. You have just learned some very hurtful things about WW. You do not want your emotions getting in the way of what should an otherwise calm, business like discussion with WW. I would also consider talking to L before saying something to WW. Playing your cards close to your chest is very important. If you want that type of custody agreement she does not need to know. Her L will start preparing to defend her based on that knowledge. The less information shared, the better when it comes to preparing for court.

I just went through this and know that even the smallest of details or hints of information can hurt your chances in court. I am sure you have read this on the board several times, treat it like a business deal. You do not reveal anything you do not have to. You are not going to be able to reason with WW or scare her into not taking you to court. She already knows her position. She does not need to know that you know it as well.