If he says to you face to face, then say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and then walk away. When they are in crisis, they say all sorts of things. What he's feeling right now are his own feelings and later down the road they could change once again. You can't change is mind on how he feels, so it's best to leave well enough alone, walk away and come here to vent.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
