Hi Wonka, thanks for dropping by; I appreciate the feedback. Yes, I understand what you are saying about the anniversary. I'll remember that next year!

Interesting about the confused about his actions and words. With H I try to be authentic in my own actions and approach, but I don't tend to engage with him WRT his words and actions. I guess I have become 'hands off' there & I presumed engaging may be like trying to reason with an angry rattlesnake. But maybe I'm missing an opportunity for truth darts there?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus