TIME HAS COME PART 2

[asitis]

Very rough. The best advice I can give you is to think right now only about your D. She is caught in the middle. Do whatever it takes to see that she suffers as little as possible. It doesn't matter what happens to your M, that is the priority. We DB the best we can, but when it comes to our kids, they trump DBing.

Give yourself some space to really try to calm your thoughts as best you can at this chaotic time & think what is best for your D. If that means breaking one of the supposed "rules" of DBing, so be it.

Good luck & sorry both you and your D are being put through this. Be strong for her.