actually V - it may be of interest to you because it is the motivator of my "compulsive" behaviour. Maybe a compulsive personality has to pre-exist, but without a doubt the path I went down was motivated by the 9 year old kid. And some of the later, dramatic things that happened were also a part.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015