Thank you for the support guys. late30, such kind words. You are right, I need to let go of the snooping. It's the one area I have really struggled with, but the thing with the call logs had to do with trying to keep up with her possibly filing. She has mentioned it a couple of times and I thought better to be prepared that it may be coming than get blind sided. When I first saw that same number pop up about 3 weeks ago, it's what prompted me to go speak with my own attorney, and he gave me plenty of good advice. I guess at this point, I may as well assume that papers could be coming any day, and not worry about the rest now. It's clear that WW is still living in la la land, and only worrying about herself. The good news is that I think that realization is going to give me the strength to detach even further, and really start to move on. It would be a relief in a lot of ways.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.