DWH you have done a great job so far. You and I are on about the same time line and I feel like you are decades ahead of me.

One thing I would say, let go of the snooping. Get off of FB or least get her off of your FB. Don't look into her cell logs. You don't know the context of the conversations and you are just mind reading. You need to let go of the snooping for you. That is one area I have had a lot of success with and let me tell you, it feels awesome to not even have the desire to snoop anymore. All it did for me was create more stress. It helps you so much to stop doing it.

I feel your pain. I wish you nothing but the best.

One thing I'd like to say as well. I just finished reading both of your threads. You are a strong man. I believe you will be one of the inspirational people around here.

M: 38 W: 37
T: 20 M: 19
Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12
BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out)
PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM)
Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015