Also, assuming I get served, I'll be fighting for near full custody of my boys. I've got detailed logs going back 2 months that show WW has spent next to no time with them. My attorney seemed confident that, given the history, I had a very good chance at full custody. She will likely end up paying me support, not the other way around. It's not how I wanted to handle things, but if this ends up being the way she wants to play, I'm not laying down for it. No idea how that ends up interfering with DB techniques or chance of R, but honest at this point I don't care. If she comes after me, I WILL protect myself and my kids, at any cost. I know that MDW recommends mediation over attorneys in D proceedings, but I'm not the one firing the first shot.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.