Cadet just gave you the 'first' pot of gold. Keep in mind when I came here it was 10 months after BD. I received BD on my B-Day, even then I knew something was not right .. she would have at least faked it for a week or two. She moved out a quick 2 months later. What threw me was SIL and MIL both have been diagnosed Bi-Polar. So at the time, I traveled down that road learning all I could about BP. Given W was in the Anger-Stage .. was not that hard to easily chalk it up to that. I did not beg-plead .. in fact when OM was admitted in Jan I basically dropped rope and decided my M was done though I refused to file. After the back and forth .. push pull I came here ... not sure how long it took, but I read the MLC stuff here... specifically The 6 Stages of MLC ... I went back and realized brick by brick she went through each tunnel at that time (a year ago) she was in Replay.
Diff there is a ton out there, read up on this stuff here, its spot on. But do realize ... the label is just that. You still have to DB and just be you. Watch the Science Project, be the lighthouse if you choose to stand ... and have patience (My krypto in all this)
